Supporting your loved one overcome addiction

 

When a loved one struggles with addiction, it can be helpful to remember that their addiction is a disease. Addiction is often rooted in a childhood trauma or genetic predisposition, meaning the addict may not be able to change their behavior without outside help, just as they wouldn't be able to heal from cancer on their own. That's why building a strong support system around your loved one is so important. Your family member needs you, and if you can help them get the support they need and make positive changes in their life, you become an integral part of their recovery story.

 
 
 

Supporting your loved on overcome addiction

In order to support your loved one, you must be present. You cannot offer them comfort if you are not around. It’s important that you don’t avoid any negative feelings or emotions that may come up in the process of supporting them—the more aware you can be of these feelings, the better equipped you will be to support your loved one through them should they come up.

In addition to simply being present, it is also important that when offering support, there are opportunities for your loved one to make amends and build bridges with those he/she has hurt along the way. Being able to forgive others is an essential part of recovery; however, this does not mean that we should accept abusive behavior from anyone as normal or acceptable behavior.

As long as abuse does not take place outside of an intimate relationship (wherein both parties consent), it must still be addressed by those who have experienced such harm in order for healing to occur within themselves personally as well as within their relationships overall - including those with family members like yourself!

Understanding how addiction works from its root cause may help remove some fear associated with trusting someone new enough again after they've relapsed once already before starting treatment program at all costs."

 

There is a true need for a support system

When it comes to helping someone overcome addiction, the best support system is family and friends. In order for this to be effective, though, you have to be open and honest with your loved one about what's going on in their life (and vice versa). You should also be patient while they work through things. It's important that they feel comfortable asking questions or expressing their emotions—so don't hesitate to listen when they do. And finally, remember that it takes time and practice before any change can take place; just because someone doesn't get it right away doesn't mean that person isn't trying hard enough or isn't worth supporting.

Be present

Being there for someone who is struggling with addiction can be a challenging and overwhelming task. While you might have the best intentions, it's important to remember that only the individual themselves can actually overcome their addiction. The best way you can support them is by being present in the moment, not trying to fix things for them or make decisions for them. Try listening to what they have to say, asking questions about how they are feeling, and being patient while they figure out what they need help with (and don't be afraid of asking "what do you think?").


Offer them the opportunity to make amends

There is a lot of value in offering your loved one the opportunity to make amends. This can be as simple as saying, “You hurt me when you did that.” It gives them the chance to hear it from someone who loves him/her.

It is important to be present during this process and let them know that you will be there for them no matter what happens. This includes when they fail or slip up again in the future, which they most likely will.

Understanding the root cause of their addiction will help you better understand how best to support and guide them through recovery.

Non-judgmental, kind behavior towards your family member or friend helps ensure that he/she feels safe enough around you so that he/she does not feel like he/she needs to hide his/her struggle with addiction from you anymore!

Honest communication about what has happened between each other (or between yourself and others involved) allows both parties involved time for reflection on their actions; helps ensure future interactions are clear cut; reduces tension between those involved; allows forgiveness if deserved; prevents further arguments from happening within families because everyone knows where everyone stands!


Work to understand the root of their addiction

Understanding the root of addiction is a process, and it's not always easy. It may take time, persistence, and patience. But if you want to help someone overcome an addiction—and be there for them as they grow in recovery—it's essential that you take steps toward understanding where their addiction comes from and what factors contributed to it. Understanding the roots of alcoholism or drug abuse can help you see how your loved one developed this problem in the first place; it also helps show why such a big change in behavior may be necessary for him/her in order to break free from these destructive habits.*

  • Understand that this is a lifelong process. You don't just learn about an addict's past once; your understanding will deepen over time as he or she continues on his path toward freedom from addiction.* Be prepared for setbacks: Recovery isn't always linear!

A strong support system is essential when working through addiction.

It is important to have a strong support system when working through addiction. In fact, one of the most important factors in an individual's success in recovery is having this group of people who will be there for them no matter what happens. In order to build a solid support network, it is necessary to identify who your loved ones are and what their roles are as you move forward into recovery. Below are some examples:

  • Family members - parents, siblings, children

  • Friends - co-workers or classmates; former friends from high school or college who have remained in contact with you over the years; old roommates whose paths crossed again later on down life's road

An addiction can be a serious problem that affects many aspects of a person’s life. However, there is help and support available. Having someone to turn to for guidance can make all the difference in recovery. If you or someone you know is struggling with addiction, we encourage you to reach out to a professional treatment provider today.

 

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